I need help with including tweens in the wedding party....I want my two little cousins (6 & 7)to be the flower girls and they have two older brothers (12 & 14) who I need to include...My fiance has two kids in his family - I want the girl to be a flower girl, but I need to include her older brother (12)...I was thinking one of the older boys could seat his mother but i'm left with 3 yound boys and there are no jr. bridesmaids I could put them with...Does anyone have an idea of what they could do....I should mention I have his four cousins as hotesses (taking care of the guest book, seating arrangments, gift table, ect)

What about favors or handouts such as programs? You can have one of the children deliver handouts and favors to everyone.

Handing out favors and programs are great ideas, a couple other idea's are parking attendants(if you feel they are old enough) and one of them could be in charge of guests coats, wraps etc....this would depend some on the weather. You have gift attendants, if they are primarily staying at the gift table?...maybe one of the boys could greet people and take the gifts at the door, so the guests don't have to worry about what to do with the gift. Also, any young boys might not feel honored with this, but helping people to their tables, carrying drinks for guests etc. could be an option.